Monday, July 30, 2012

23 Weeks: Pregnancy Revelations

I have been pregnant my fair share of times so the title of this blog may be a little surprising to most. What is left to reveal to a woman who has been pregnant FIVE times?! Believe me….a whole heck of a lot! 

For starters, when I was pregnant with Harper, I realized that people don’t always tell you the truth about pregnancy. It’s always, “Being pregnant is so enjoyable!” or “You are going to love being pregnant; it’s such a great experience!”. I won’t discount either of those statements because the enjoyable parts of pregnancy do outweigh the un enjoyable, especially given the overall outcome.  However, how come no one has the guts to tell me about all the “other” parts of pregnancy? 

Please don’t mistake this as a post simply complaining about the un enjoyable parts of pregnancy…it is not that. I just find it a little amusing how little information people will actually divulge about the “joys” of pregnancy. 

The following are a few revelations that are new to me this pregnancy:
1.       Being pregnant in the summer would be easier if I lived in an igloo.
2.       Bending over in front of my husband, I’m sure, looked somewhat attractive before. This whole spread-your-legs-shoulder-width-apart-and-bend-from-the-waist thing I have going on will probably not get me any more children in the near future.
3.       Babies in utero are rocked to sleep by a mother’s movements during the day. When they are awake is right about the time you decide to call it quits for the night and lay down. Wonderful….which brings me to revelation #4
4.       A whole new sleep schedule sets in once you are a mother. When you are a mother with a toddler sleeping upstairs and one running through the football play book inside your uterus, sleep is a thing of the past.
5.       When people tell you, “You are simply glowing!”, it’s a lie. Sure I’m glowing….it’s because my body is no longer mine but has succumbed to the puddle of sweat that now consumes me. You would be glowing too…..
6.       “Charlie Horse” is far too nice a term for a terrible pain with a 4 AM wakeup call.
7.       Being pregnant with a boy is MUCH different than a pregnancy with a girl. For instance, I think someone installed tiny uprights and a football play book in my uterus “just for practice”.
8.       The “first trimester symptoms” are supposed to magically disappear once you enter your second trimester. Raise your hand if this has never been the case: “Me, me, pick me!!”
9.       Pregnancy cravings are a thing of the past when you have a toddler running around. No longer do I indulge in chocolate covered goodness and ice cream at any time of day. Instead, my cravings get to consist of the following: goldfish crackers, grapes, applesauce, and the occasional pack of fruit snacks. All are Harper approved.
10.   Victoria Secret doesn’t care that I’m pregnant and can no longer fit into their attire. In fact, I think they may be mocking me by sending more flyers, ads, and catalogs than ever before. Well played, VS, well played.
11.   Finally, maternity clothes are EXPENSIVE. Do you know what is not?! My husband’s boxers and t-shirts….consider this a warning if you stop by unannounced.

Although these have been a few of my “enlightenments” since becoming pregnant, I know this cannot be all of them. Please, feel free to share!

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